Silicone vs glass vs steel: how to pick your first dildo

Three materials, three personalities. None of them are wrong; one of them is right for you.

Silicone: forgiving, warm, normal-feeling

If you’re unsure, start here. Body-safe, easy to clean, warms up fast. The Tantus Pop is my "first dildo" pick.

Tantus Pop

PinkCherry · $45 · 4.5/5

Slim silicone dildo, gentle curve. Great first dildo at a reasonable price.

Steel: heavy, sleek, lifetime toy

Cold until warmed. Once you’ve used the NJoy Pure Wand on a G-spot, the bar is set. Lasts forever, dishwasher safe.

One of the best toys ever made. Fight me.

NJoy Pure Wand

PinkCherry · $130 · 4.9/5

Stainless steel double-ended wand. Genuinely one of the best toys ever made.

Dual-density silicone: realistic, premium

The Vixen Mustang VixSkin has a soft outer over a firmer core. The closest "feels real" you can buy in silicone.

Vixen Mustang VixSkin

PinkCherry · $140 · 4.9/5

Dual-density silicone dildo with realistic feel. Strap-on harness compatible.

Alternatives

ProductPriceRatingRetailer
Tantus PopSlim silicone dildo, gentle curve. Great first dildo at a reasonable price.$454.5/5PinkCherryCheck price
NJoy Pure WandStainless steel double-ended wand. Genuinely one of the best toys ever made.$1304.9/5PinkCherryCheck price
Vixen Mustang VixSkinDual-density silicone dildo with realistic feel. Strap-on harness compatible.$1404.9/5PinkCherryCheck price

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    PinkCherry · $75 · 4.4/5